Relationship Coaching Clarified

Got questions about love and relationships? We've got the answers you're seeking. Dive into our FAQ section for insights and guidance on your love journey.

What is Coaching?

Coaching is a professional, client focused service that assumes that the individual or couple is healthy, powerful and able to achieve their desired relationship and life goals with effective support, information and guidance.

  • Is about personal growth and development

    Works to move people to a higher level of functioning

    Focuses on the future

    Is action based and will include "homework"

    Introduces new skills and strategies

    Encourages and supports you to implement effective choices

    Works with you at solving problems / overcoming barriers

    Holds you accountable for your actions.

The Coach will provide coaching services based on your needs and desired level of support. Together with the coach you will co-create the Coaching Agenda, which will identify your requirements for coaching support. 

Success requires your commitment to the coaching process and the outcomes that result from it. The Coach’s role is to employ their expertise as a mentor, taskmaster, motivator and sounding board, which will help you get on track, stay focused, and be accountable for your  progress. You will need to be open and honest about your issues and needs, keep agreements, and stay committed to the goals you identify in order for coaching to be successful for you. 

The coaching relationship is not psychotherapy, psychological counselling, or any type of therapy; nor is it a substitute for these services where they are required. In the event the Coach feels the need for you to receive professional counseling or therapy, you will be advised and it is your responsibility to seek a qualified professional who can provide these services. 

What is Mediation?

Mediation is a process of negotiation where the parties come together with a neutral third party with the intention of reaching a consensual settlement of their issues in dispute.

Mediation is a process that can be used for any form of dispute. It is commonly used in family law, civil or commercial matters as an alternative to litigating through the Court system. 

The mediator is a facilitator who will assist the parties to reach their own settlement. The mediator will not make decisions about ‘right’ or ‘wrong’, tell the parties what to do, or impose a decision on them. The mediator will help parties to tell their side of the story; work out the issues; find areas of agreement or common ground and assist in generating ideas that might result in an agreement. However, any comments, opinions, suggestions, statements or recommendations made by the mediator are not binding on any party.

The mediator will not offer legal advice nor provide legal counsel. Where applicable, each party is advised to retain his or her own lawyer or other adviser in order to be properly advised about his or her legal interests, rights and obligations. 

For mediation to work, open and honest communications are essential and parties need to enter the process with a genuine intention to seek a mutual resolution. To assist the parties in the process all written and oral communications, negotiations and statements made in the course of the mediation will be treated as privileged settlement discussions and are absolutely confidential.

Relationship Coaching

Relationship coaching can help you understand the how and why you fell in love so that you can maintain and grow your connectedness; rekindle romance; overcome obstacles that are hindering you having a happy and fulfilling relationship and teach you to resolve conflict in a constructive and respectful way and affair proof your marriage. 

Whether you are in the "bliss bubble" of romantic love and want to stay there; are having some struggles in your marriage; feel that you have grown apart; are ready to call it quits on your marriage; are dealing with separation / have a history of failed relationships; or have a good marriage that you want to make into a great marriage; then coaching can help.

  • Accepting personal responsibility 

    Understanding yourself / your partner / the kids / work colleagues

    Challenging unhelpful and limiting thinking and replacing with positive thinking

    Understanding "Love languages" and developing caring behaviours that will provide nurture and security for your partner / children 

    Understanding and managing emotions

    Improving your communication skills so that you are heard and understood

    Turning complaints and criticisms into requests 

    Identify relational needs to ensure that yours are being met as well as your partner's

    Conflict resolution skills to address issues in a healthy and constructive way 

    Establishing resilience to handle obstacles and setbacks

    Creating a life that is in alignment with your beliefs and values

    Creating balance in all areas of your life

    Goal setting and creating a shared vision for the future

    Monitoring your growth.

Coaching can be conducted individually or as couples. Although the engagement of both parties to a relationship is ideal in attaining desired outcomes in the shortest timeframe, it is not essential. One party who is willing to take responsibility and try new skills has the ability to change the climate of a marriage.

Conflict Resolution 

Relationship Coaching Toowoomba is also able to offer mediation services to assist in resolving entrenched conflict or to facilitate discussions and negotiations between parties in a safe, controlled environment. 

Mediation

As a qualified mediator, Kym is available to mediate any form of dispute or facilitate discussion on any issue that requires negotiation and resolution. Please note however that she is not an FDR Practitioner that is able to issue a Certificate under section 60I of the Family Law Act if that is required for Court purposes where parenting disputes are involved.

Parenting Coaching

These skills will assist you in all areas of your life and every relationship, however the parenting relationship can have its own unique challenges and struggles. If you are struggling in the parenting department, parenting coaching can equip and empower you to overcome your current blockages and move forward into "nag free" parenting that's effective, supportive and fulfilling. 

If you are having difficulty understanding your child; don't understand why what works for one doesn't work for another; are frustrated; feeling defeated or creating a self fulfilling prophecy about how difficult parenting is and how horrible your

  • Understand you child/ren

    Love and discipline in a language they understand

    Break unhealthy beliefs or antiquated parenting models that aren't working

    Be more effective in your communication

    Learn to request, direct and enforce desired behaviours

    Guide, nurture and discipline your child rather than punish

    Identify and address defiant behaviours

    Establish and maintain clear boundaries and consequences

    Build responsibility in your child through choices and consequences

    Raise happy, confident, successful, responsible, respectful and resilient children

    Grow closer as a family.